Interview with giveaway: Liam Livings – Escaping From Him

escapingEscaping From Him by Liam Livings

Darryl’s on the run – from controlling boyfriend Chris, an air-conditioner called Dave (deceased), an intolerable, claustrophobic situation and a person he just can’t be any more. The trouble is, he doesn’t have a plan – or any money – and all he knows is he needs to get away from everything. That’s where a lucky lift to Glasgow comes in, which turns out to be just the beginning of a whole new life … 

What films did you watch that inspired the story?

Escaping From Him has a touch of the road trip film about it, I think, Connie and Carla, or maybe Thelma and Louise. In both these films the main characters jump on the road and drive away from their lives because they have no choice. Darryl’s life gets to a point where he no longer has a choice, he literally cannot be that person any longer, so he has to leave to become another person.

No surprise to anyone who knows me, but Muriel’s Wedding. Muriel is the ugly duckling stuck in her room in Porpoise Spit, listening to ABBA songs all day, and she escapes all that, moves to Sydney with her friend and finds herself a man, she even changes her name to Mariel. Muriel reinvents herself because she’s sick and tired of being the person she was in Porpoise Spit. Darryl is sick and tired of the person he is in London, living with Chris.

Romy and Michelle’s High School Reunion. Just because I love it. That is all 😉

Why is Darryl a photographer and Chris an estate agent? Why do their jobs matter?

I often seem to think about my main characters’ jobs! I think a job says so much about a person’s personality, what motivates them, what defines them as a person.  I wanted to show the contrast between the sort of jobs/careers these two characters find important.

Darryl is all about using his creativity, and isn’t so bothered about the money. For him the thought of just getting a job, any job is like a form of slow death. For Darryl, being able to have a job that’s creative and matters to him is as important as the air he breaths.

For Chris, the job is incidental to the money he gets from it, and therefore the things he can buy. Chris doesn’t enjoy being an estate agent any more than he would enjoy any other job, but he enjoys the money it brings. He’s can easily disengage his morals, the part of him that gets meaning from his job, and simply get on with selling houses every day. By the way, I don’t have anything against estate agents, but it was a contrasting job to photography.

It is just one of the many ways that Darryl and Chris are incompatible, only it takes Darryl a while to realise how incompatible.



“Why don’t you get a normal job?” Chris would ask me as I ended another unpaid work experience placement.

And because I didn’t want to say, “Because I can’t think of anything worse than doing what you do,” I just said, “It’s not my dream. It’s not who I am.”

“Dreams are all good and well, but they don’t pay the rent or the council tax, do they? Or pay for food? You need to think more practically, babe.”

There it was, that word he was so fond of. Practically.

I wasn’t so big on practically. I was more into dreams and hopes…


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About Liam Livings

Liam Livings lives where east London ends and becomes Essex. He shares his house with his boyfriend and cat. He enjoys baking, cooking, classic cars and socialising with friends. He escapes from real life with a guilty pleasure book, cries at a sad, funny and camp film – and he’s been known to watch an awful lot of Gilmore Girls in the name of writing ‘research’.

He has written since he was a teenager, started writing with the hope of publication in 2011. His writing focuses on friendships, British humour, romance with plenty of sparkle.

You can connect with Liam

Twitter @LiamLivings




Leave an answer to this question by 2/13 @11:59 PM for a random chance to win a copy !  CLOSED! congratulations Jennifer! 

How do you think a character’s job reflects their personality?

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  1. Really nice blurb. A job can really reflect someone’s personality. My friend Gabrielle is very sweet and caring and she’s a pediatric nurse.

  2. I’d love to read this book soon:)
    My father is very dominating and he has his own business because he will never work under someone else

  3. I’m not sure that one always has anything to do with the other. A lot of people just fall into a job because it’s the only thing available.

  4. I think that if the job is one that they wanted and picked, then yes it can reflect personality. Unfortunately, I know way too many people who ended up in jobs simply because that was what was available…then I don’t think it reflects personality.

  5. I don’t think it does. Most people have a job that they either fell into because that’s all they could find or they stay with it because of the money. So I don’t think the job reflects their personality.

  6. I’d love to read this book soon:)

  7. I think that sometimes career choice depend on personality, and career moulds and/or reveal virtue.

  8. Shirley Ann Speakman

    It is something that everyone wants a job that fits there personality but unfortunately most people don’t get the choice they have to take any job they can.

  9. I kind of think it can be a double edge sword. A person can work in a job where they need to be caring but when they aren’t within that role they can be a totally different person.

    Then there are people who careers do kind of reflect their personalities. I guess it really just comes down to how driven and ambitious a person is.

  10. I’ve seen jobs reflect personality and I’ve seen the opposite. Often times people must accept any jobs offered, especially during tough times, which may not gel with their personalities.

  11. A job often reflects someone’s personality. If someone is in a job that suits their personality I think they are happier.

  12. In some ways it is true, especially if your chosen career is the one you have always wanted to do. Although in some cases your career choice can be dictated by your family or the family business with no concern for your personality or job/career preference. Then there are people who have no choice in what they do, as they need to live and/or care for their family.

    Thank you for the giveaway and a chance to win a copy of Liam Livings new book

  13. Hi everyone,
    thanks for commenting, it’s a good discussion we’ve got going here on jobs and personalities. Some people do just fall into jobs, but others, they have a ‘calling’ and more of a profession. I suppose it depends on your circumstances.
    Liam Livings xx

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